Tips for getting loved ones to come cleanĮngage the subject: Put down your cellphone, avoid interruptions and give the subject your full attention. "Honey, we all forget things," the husband said. After they had settled into their seats, the wife thanked the husband for being so understanding and went on to make a full and voluntary confession: "I can't believe I forgot the tickets." In the case of the couple that arrived at the airport without their paper tickets, Houston says that, because the wife came clean, they were able to send a friend to retrieve the tickets, and they made their flight. You might ask a suspected philanderer, "How long has this been going on?" or "Are you still seeing her?" If you meet resistance, you go back to your monologue and work up to another presumptive question. The monologue leads up to a presumptive question, a question that presumes that at least part of your suspicion is true.
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